This is your Sunday evening reminder that you can handle whatever this week throws at you. Even if school, work or general life isn’t okay, you’ll get through it because you are damn strong and amazing.
I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not a fan of house parties. Don’t get me wrong, I love getting drunk with my friends, but the overall party scene is too much for me. I don’t understand how people do it every weekend. It’s the same deal, every single time. Dimly lit backyards, with a speaker somewhere playing music from someone’s phone. The girls who move in packs, with their bottles of fireball. Everyone waving their cigarettes around. The one belligerently drunk guy who’s always yelling “SHUT THE FUCK UP” when things get too loud. Cheap malt liquor 40s everywhere. The boys in the back corner blowing trees. The two drunk thotties who think it’s cute to sloppily grind on eachother out of nowhere. There’s always the couple of kids who are slightly too young to be there, and there’s always the people in their early 20’s who probably shouldn’t be there either. Air so thick with the smell of weed and grape blunt wraps, you go home with the scent stuck to your hair. House parties are super cool when everyone there knows each other, but when that’s not the case you just get this weird melting pot of drunk asses and people more interested in being seen at the party than actually being at the party. I’m not trying to be condescending to anyone, because throughout highschool I’m pretty sure I’ve fallen into a few of the categories above. But now? I just be over that shit. It’s exhausting, and not really my crowd.
It’s important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping and drinking and smoking and going out.
Make friends who you can go get breakfast with, make friends you can cry with, make friends who support your life goals and believe in you.
guys are so terrifying like they will really date a girl as a joke or make bets in their friend groups on who can fuck a girl first or take her virginity and that’s so scary this is a joke to them